Items Needed – 31/05/2021

URGENTLY NEEDED FOR A CASE:

  • 3x Wardrobes

We have ongoing need of:

  • PCs / Laptops – even broken (as we can repair them)
  • Computer Desks & Chairs
  • Mobile Phones / Tablets
  • Nappies (all sizes)
  • Baby Wipes
  • Toiletries (Shower Gel, Shampoo, Conditioner, Tooth Paste, Mouth Wash, Deodorant)
  • Wash Bags
  • Flannels/Bath Lilies & Hand Towels
  • Razors (Mens & Womens)
  • Hairbrushes/Combs
  • Baby Monitors
  • Stair Gates
  • Bags For Life (not normal carrier bags)
  • Storage Boxes/Crates

If you have any of these items, that you can donate, please fill in our “Contact Us” form at https://newlifedomestic.org.uk/contact-us/ or email us at info@newlifedomestic.org.uk

Please also share this post across your social media, to help us get these items sooner

Upcoming Events

We have been working hard to come up with a number of fundraising events, which will help us to fund our ongoing work, while offering you a chance to have some fun with us

These events range from Quiz Nights, to an Elvis Tribute performance, Sponsored Walk & Picnic to Bingo, we really are aiming to provide something for everyone, with 100% of profits going towards our work.

Please see below, all confirmed events can be clicked for further details

Table Top Sale – 12th June 2021

Quiz Night – 2nd July 2021 (SOLD OUT)

Sponsored Walk – 25th July 2021

Bingo Night – September 2021 (To Be Confirmed)

Elvis Night – 8th October 2021

Quiz Night – 12th November 2021 (To Be Confirmed)

Claire’s Law

Did you know that there is a law – Claire’s Law – in place should you have concerns about your partner? You have the right to ask the police if your partner poses any risk to you.

Under Clare’s Law, you can also make enquiries into the partner of a close friend or family member.

Domestic abuse doesn’t discriminate. It can affect anyone regardless of ethnicity, age, gender, sexuality or social background.

For more information on how to make a request of information under Clare’s Law, please visit https://linktr.ee/NewForestDAHelp

(Source: Totton Police)

Items Needed – 27/05/2021

URGENTLY NEEDED FOR A CASE:

  • 3x Wardrobes

We have ongoing need of:

  • PCs / Laptops – even broken (as we can repair them)
  • Computer Desks & Chairs
  • Mobile Phones / Tablets
  • Nappies (all sizes)
  • Baby Wipes
  • Toiletries (Shower Gel, Shampoo, Conditioner, Tooth Paste, Mouth Wash, Deodorant)
  • Wash Bags
  • Flannels/Bath Lilies & Hand Towels
  • Razors (Mens & Womens)
  • Hairbrushes/Combs
  • Baby Monitors
  • Stair Gates
  • Bags For Life (not normal carrier bags)
  • Storage Boxes/Crates

If you have any of these items, that you can donate, please fill in our “Contact Us” form at https://newlifedomestic.org.uk/contact-us/ or email us at info@newlifedomestic.org.uk

Please also share this post across your social media, to help us get these items sooner

Premium Membership

We are now offering everyone, over the age of 18, the chance to become a member of New Life Domestic.

As a member, not only will you get to vote on any big decisions facing us, be provided a quarterly update on how we are doing, and get a discount on items in our shop, but, more importantly, you will be helping to fund our ongoing work to help the survivors of domestic abuse.

We are now at an important cross roads as an organisation, and we need to be able to secure a regular, predictable, monthly income, so that we are able to cover costs such as business rates and electricity costs on storage facilities, as well as insurance costs, to protect our volunteers, clients and stock.

To do this we are offering a number of different premium membership packages for you to choose from, starting from as little as £5 a month, a full breakdown of the levels can be found here https://newlifedomestic.org.uk/membership-account/membership-levels/

Each membership level offers our members a vote on all big decisions that will shape our work going forwards, a quarterly update from us on the work we are doing, and the state of our organisation, but as an extra “Thank You” we also offer the following discount levels in our online shop.

Bronze – 2% off
Silver – 3% off
Gold – 5% off
Platinum – 10% off

Further information is available at https://newlifedomestic.org.uk/membership/, if you have any further questions, please email us at info@newlifedomestic.org.uk, and we will be happy to answer you

Volunteers Needed

We are looking for more volunteers to help us with our work

We need people who can help us raise awareness of our work on social media, by simply sharing posts across platforms and inviting others to like/follow our social media pages, and where possible encouraging others to donate to us.

There is also a need for more drop off/collection points, this simply requires a small amount of space where items can be left safely, and stored, until we are able to collect them.

And as always, we are looking for people to assist with collecting and delivering items, this could be transporting items between storage and collection points, or delivering items to our clients.

If you feel you would be able to help us in any capacity, please fill out our Volunteer Application at https://newlifedomestic.org.uk/volunteer-application/

New Life Domestic Auction

We would like to ask all of our followers to take the time to visit the Facebook auction group New Life Domestic Auctions.

This group is run by us, to raise funds entirely for the work we are doing, through the means of auctioning items donated for fundraising.

There are many bargains to be had, and all the money raised goes towards the work we do.

You can find the group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/148475480086881

Upcoming Events

We have been working hard to come up with a number of fundraising events, which will help us to fund our ongoing work, while offering you a chance to have some fun with us

These events range from Quiz Nights, to an Elvis Tribute performance, Sponsored Walk & Picnic to Bingo, we really are aiming to provide something for everyone, with 100% of profits going towards our work.

Please see below, all confirmed events can be clicked for further details

Table Top Sale – 12th June 2021

Quiz Night – 2nd July 2021 (SOLD OUT)

Sponsored Walk – 25th July 2021

Bingo Night – September 2021 (To Be Confirmed)

Elvis Night – 8th October 2021

Quiz Night – 12th November 2021 (To Be Confirmed)

The Silent Solution – 999 and 55

How the Silent Solution* system works:

A silent 999 call alone will not automatically bring help.

Please read the information below to understand how this system works:

  1. WHEN YOU CALL 999: All 999 calls are directed to call centres and will be answered by BT operators. The BT operator will ask which service you need: Fire, Police or Ambulance. If you call 999 and don’t speak, the BT operator will be listening out for background noises (coughs, noises, taps on the phone, pressing 55, etc.) and will hang on the line for a certain period of time. If no requests are made and the BT operator believes the call needs to go through to an emergency service, it will always go to the police first. If no service is requested, but anything suspicious is heard throughout the process, the BT operator will connect you to the Silent Solution system.
  2. The Silent Solution is a police system used to filter out large numbers of accidental or hoax 999 calls. It also exists to help people who are unable to speak, but who genuinely need police assistance. You will hear an automated police message, which lasts for 20 seconds and begins with ‘you are through to the police’. It will ask you to press 55 to be put through to police call management. The BT operator will remain on the line and listen. If you press 55, tap or make a noise, they will be notified and transfer the call to the police. If you don’t do any of the above, the call will be terminated after 45 seconds.
  3. If you pressed 55, a police call handler will announce that you are through to the police.
  4. If you can’t speak, you will be asked to tap the phone, make a noise or press 55. The police call handler will try a number of ways so that you do not feel under pressure to carry out just one prescribed action.
  5. Only by pressing 55, tapping the phone, coughing, or making noise are you guaranteed a response to your call from a police call handler despite your silence. It is much easier to speak to the operator. But if you must stay silent, a mechanism has been provided that you can use to acquire help regardless.
  6. Pressing 55 will not bring emergency services to your door and does not allow the police to track your location. By choosing to stay on the line, you are informing the police call handler that you might have an emergency that keeps you from talking, and they will do everything they can to determine your location so they can deploy officers to you.
  7. The police call handler will try and engage with you, if you remain silent they will attempt to engage further and ask you to tap the phone if you are unable to speak; for example, yes and no questions can be asked by the call handler and answered using one keypad press for yes and two for no.
  8. If the police call handler has concerns about your safety, they will continue to try to communicate through sound.
  9. If you are able to speak without putting yourself in danger, the police call handler will ask just yes and no questions if necessary. In some cases, the conversation is led by the caller, who sometimes tries and speaks to the police call handlers in code, if for example the perpetrator has reappeared.
  10. If you can say only one thing, please say your location. If you call from a mobile, we can pin point an estimate location but this does not narrow down enough to provide data we can locate you on.
  11. Police call handlers can request subscriber checks and can carry out background checks to assist in locating you. This can depend on whether you have contacted the police before. Also, if your phone is registered to you, it could determine whether this will provide a potential location for you.
  12. The police call handlers will deal with calls on a case by case basis, as each call is different, and the style of the call is adapted in line with the circumstances.
  13. Silent Solution* = calling 999 without speaking, then pressing 55.#

(Credit: Thames Valley Police)