Our Mission

Our mission is to assist those in, and coming out of, domestic abuse situations via official body referrals.

By helping people in those first important steps of furnishing their new home, and providing items such as clothes, toiletries, shoes and other essentials, we aim to make it easier for people to stand on their own 2 feet, and build their new life.

Safe Spaces

There are a number of Safe Spaces provided in the UK, for those looking to escape domestic abuse. These will provide you with a safe and secure environment, where you will be able to make contact with those who will be able to help you.

How to access a Safe Space

  • Walk into any participating pharmacy in the UK.
  • Ask at the healthcare counter to use their Safe Space.
  • A pharmacist will show you to the Safe Space. Which will be the consultancy room.
  • Once inside, you will find displayed specialist domestic abuse support information for you to access, to make that call or access Bright Sky safely.

Safe Spaces are open and ready for you to use.

To find your nearest Safe Space, go to https://uksaysnomore.org/safespaces/ and enter your postcode

How To Get Help From New Life Domestic

New Life Domestic, like many similar organisations, work with people by official referral only.

So, to get our help, all you need to do is ask an official organisation, such as Social Services, a domestic abuse organisation, local council, or other similar organisation, to contact us on your behalf, we then ask them to complete a quick form to provide us all the necessary details we will need to help you.

We will assign you a caseworker, once we receive the referral form, who will then begin sourcing any item we don’t have in stock, and arranging for all items to be delivered to you at the earliest possible chance.

Why official referral only? Unfortunately, the answer to this is simple, in the time that we have been running, we have been contacted by people who have tried to take advantage of us, to help with things such as replacing items damaged during a party. By only working with those referred by an official organisation, we can ensure that only those who genuinely need our help are receiving it, and that every penny and item donated to us is going to help someone who is in genuine need

Just £1 Per Month!

With the work we are doing, we need to be able to cover the ongoing monthly cost of storage and other necessary expenses, such as insurance, business rates, etc.

If each visitor to this page was able to donate just £1 per month, we would have a regular income that would cover the operational costs our work incurs, allowing us to help more of those who need our support.

To help us in this way, please click below, tick the box to make it a monthly donation, and set the amount you wish to donate each month, then click either the “Donate” or “Donate With Card” button

Fancy having Santa visit your children?

Do you want the chance to have Father Christmas and his Elf visit your child/children at about 5.00pm on the 24th December. If so contact us for a lucky number on 02380470610.

It’s only £1 for a lucky number with a live draw taking place on the 12th Dec. The more you buy the higher the chance of winning. If you miss the live draw you will be notified. So come on , make sure you have your lucky number.

This has been kindly donated by Blake Entertainment.

Help Spread The Word

We need the help of all our supporters, to help us to spread the word about our work.

Please can we ask you all to share posts from our website (https://newlifedomestic.org.uk) on all of your social media outlets and blogs (if you have them).

Please also connect with us on social media as follows

Please also share our social pages with your friends/family/followers, and help us to spread the word about the work we do. This in turn will allow us to help more people when they really need us the most

Items Needed – 27/09/2021

We are currently in urgent need of the following items for a case:

  • Size XL Mens Clothing
  • Size 16 – 18 Womens Clothing

We have ongoing need of:

  • PCs / Laptops – even broken (as we can repair them)
  • Computer Desks & Chairs
  • Mobile Phones / Tablets
  • Nappies (all sizes)
  • Baby Wipes
  • Toiletries (Shower Gel, Shampoo, Conditioner, Tooth Paste, Mouth Wash, Deodorant)
  • Wash Bags
  • Flannels/Bath Lilies & Hand Towels
  • Razors (Mens & Womens)
  • Hairbrushes/Combs
  • Baby Monitors
  • Stair Gates
  • Bags For Life (not normal carrier bags)
  • Storage Boxes/Crates

If you have any of these items, that you can donate, please fill in our “Contact Us” form at https://newlifedomestic.org.uk/contact-us/ or email us at info@newlifedomestic.org.uk

Please also share this post across your social media, to help us get these items sooner

The Silent Solution – 999 and 55

How the Silent Solution* system works:

A silent 999 call alone will not automatically bring help.

Please read the information below to understand how this system works:

  1. WHEN YOU CALL 999: All 999 calls are directed to call centres and will be answered by BT operators. The BT operator will ask which service you need: Fire, Police or Ambulance. If you call 999 and don’t speak, the BT operator will be listening out for background noises (coughs, noises, taps on the phone, pressing 55, etc.) and will hang on the line for a certain period of time. If no requests are made and the BT operator believes the call needs to go through to an emergency service, it will always go to the police first. If no service is requested, but anything suspicious is heard throughout the process, the BT operator will connect you to the Silent Solution system.
  2. The Silent Solution is a police system used to filter out large numbers of accidental or hoax 999 calls. It also exists to help people who are unable to speak, but who genuinely need police assistance. You will hear an automated police message, which lasts for 20 seconds and begins with ‘you are through to the police’. It will ask you to press 55 to be put through to police call management. The BT operator will remain on the line and listen. If you press 55, tap or make a noise, they will be notified and transfer the call to the police. If you don’t do any of the above, the call will be terminated after 45 seconds.
  3. If you pressed 55, a police call handler will announce that you are through to the police.
  4. If you can’t speak, you will be asked to tap the phone, make a noise or press 55. The police call handler will try a number of ways so that you do not feel under pressure to carry out just one prescribed action.
  5. Only by pressing 55, tapping the phone, coughing, or making noise are you guaranteed a response to your call from a police call handler despite your silence. It is much easier to speak to the operator. But if you must stay silent, a mechanism has been provided that you can use to acquire help regardless.
  6. Pressing 55 will not bring emergency services to your door and does not allow the police to track your location. By choosing to stay on the line, you are informing the police call handler that you might have an emergency that keeps you from talking, and they will do everything they can to determine your location so they can deploy officers to you.
  7. The police call handler will try and engage with you, if you remain silent they will attempt to engage further and ask you to tap the phone if you are unable to speak; for example, yes and no questions can be asked by the call handler and answered using one keypad press for yes and two for no.
  8. If the police call handler has concerns about your safety, they will continue to try to communicate through sound.
  9. If you are able to speak without putting yourself in danger, the police call handler will ask just yes and no questions if necessary. In some cases, the conversation is led by the caller, who sometimes tries and speaks to the police call handlers in code, if for example the perpetrator has reappeared.
  10. If you can say only one thing, please say your location. If you call from a mobile, we can pin point an estimate location but this does not narrow down enough to provide data we can locate you on.
  11. Police call handlers can request subscriber checks and can carry out background checks to assist in locating you. This can depend on whether you have contacted the police before. Also, if your phone is registered to you, it could determine whether this will provide a potential location for you.
  12. The police call handlers will deal with calls on a case by case basis, as each call is different, and the style of the call is adapted in line with the circumstances.
  13. Silent Solution* = calling 999 without speaking, then pressing 55.#

(Credit: Thames Valley Police)

Claire’s Law

Did you know that there is a law – Claire’s Law – in place should you have concerns about your partner? You have the right to ask the police if your partner poses any risk to you.

Under Clare’s Law, you can also make enquiries into the partner of a close friend or family member.

Domestic abuse doesn’t discriminate. It can affect anyone regardless of ethnicity, age, gender, sexuality or social background.

For more information on how to make a request of information under Clare’s Law, please visit https://linktr.ee/NewForestDAHelp

(Source: Totton Police)